Rwanda – Rubbing Shoulders With Silverbacks!


We are warned not to get too close to the mountain gorillas on our trek. Or touch them.

But the great apes are not bound by any such restrictions.  Guhonda, the largest silverback on the planet, is lying on his belly, staring at us intently. Then he heaves up all 400 imposing pounds and strides purposefully to a clump of bamboo shoots right behind us as our group scrambles into a submissive huddle.

“Don’t look the alpha male in the eye if he approaches”.

We don’t dare.

Guhonda, the largest gorilla on the planet, lying on his stomach with face resting on hand and staring straight at the camera!
Guhonda, the patriarch of the Sabinyo group in a pensive mood.

He sniffs at my hair as he brushes past, (so R tells me later, I have my eyes downcast and chin tucked firmly into my knees). The females follow, one with a clinging infant, saucer eyes focused on us. Juveniles playfully finger shoelaces. Two sub adults startle a couple of trekkers from behind, while a red shirted human is playfully cuffed by the second silverback! (Who wears signal red into the jungle???). We clumsily stumble around the thick vegetation, watching them forage, eat, rest, play, fight. For one singular life-changing hour.

Read Next: Complete Guide To Gorilla Trekking In Rwanda

480 endangered mountain gorillas inhabit the slopes of six volcanoes that comprise the Virunga range. The contiguous mountains across the border in Uganda, are home to an additional 400. The last of the majestic species Diane Fossey dedicated her life to study. Only ten of the family groups are habituated to human interaction. Groups of eight visitors are allowed exactly one hour with any one of these families per day. This limited intrusion into their habitat is a conservation policy that makes the visit prohibitively pricey. The park fee alone is $750 per person ($600 in Uganda, but the distance to that park requires an extra night’s stay).

The visit is beautifully organised. We are driven to the visitors centre of the Parc National des Volcans at 6.30 am, where we are entertained by Intore performers over coffee and biscuits, while the park guides match gorilla families to visitor groups and try to accommodate requests for easy, medium or challenging treks. Treks depend on where the gorilla families decide to picnic on any given day of course, and an easy trek could sometimes turn into the most challenging.

A seated young male silverback gorilla chewing on a bamboo shoot.
A baby gorilla playfully nibbling on a fern

Kris – our travel planner – had suggested we opt for the easy trek to maximize our chances of spending quality time with an active group in the morning, since there was a likelihood of rain that afternoon, and “wet gorillas aren’t too much fun”. A park naturalist and an assistant guide sit us down and introduce us to the family we will be visiting, before we get back into our vehicles for a half hour drive to the start of the trek.

We set out towards the volcanoes over potato fields and farmland, quickly ascending a forested slope. As we slip and slide, and skirt stinging nettles and buffalo poo, we are glad our backpacks are being lugged by our individual porters. We are preceded by trackers who radio in the location of the gorillas, while our guides coach us on gorilla etiquette at every ‘catch your breath’ stop.  Four more machete wielding trackers chop away at obstructions in our path. And two rifle toting guards follow behind. Just in case.

Ninety breathless minutes later, we make our breakfast date with the Sabinyo family. All eight of them.

Large male Silverback examining a bamboo shoot.
Baby gorilla seated on mother's lap.

We had see-sawed over the Rwanda add-on to our Tanzanian safari. We even cancelled our bookings mid way, when our budgets seemed to spiral out of control. The desire to include as much from our Africa bucket list as possible while our yellow fever vaccinations were current, and our travel funds not completely exhausted, put it back on our itinerary. But pruned to three nights.

There are lots more things to do in Rwanda. More national parks, more endangered primates: chimpanzees, golden monkeys (easily clubbed with the gorillas if you have more time), colobus monkeys, owl faced monkeys – the list is long. But given another day – and plenty more cash – to spare, I would opt for the privilege of one more precious hour with the magnificent gorillas.

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All about trekking with mountain gorillas in Rwanda. A life changing hour that is one of our most memorable travel moments. #Silverback #Gorillas #Safari #RwandaTravel
Details of our memorable trek with mountain gorillas in Rwanda. One life-changing hour with the silverbacks that is among our most memorable travel moments. #Silverback #Gorillas #Safari #GorillaTrekking #RwandaTravel #WildlifeTravel

The logistics of our trip was handled efficiently by Kristofer Zachrisson of J K Safaris. and our driver/guide on the ground Sam Twizere, from the moment we landed in Kigali until our dawn departure to Tarangire on the final day.

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Madhu is an Interior designer turned travel blogger on a long sabbatical to explore the world. When not crafting stories on The Urge To Wander, she's probably Tweeting @theurgetowander or sharing special moments on

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